Sadly, scenes of violence that was exhibited by the cadets IPDN was easily forgotten. As if our memories so short. We easily forget, and more wretched again we do not want to learn from experience. Violence in IPDN earlier, for example, does not make us introspective. Though these events received widespread attention and became the center of attention of the press during weeks. Until then the same events over and over again and cause more casualties.
The latest victim is Cliff Muntu, a cadet at the institute, the senior who died after torture. Whereas in 2003, a cadet named Wahyu Hidayat, also met his end at the campus after a number of senior students tortured him beyond reasonable limits.
More ironically, such a thing was also happening in elementary school. A boy named Edo Rinaldo died after being beaten their peers. I do not know who to blame, our children are now so easily to violence. They are not only easy to do physical violence, but also with easy harassing and demeaning others. They are getting used to also perform mental abuse.
Mid-2005, for example, Vivi Kusrini, 10 junior high students Bantar Gebang Bekasi eventually commit suicide due to stronger each day receive a mockery of his friends. Vivi's friends every day mocking his father's job. Vivian's father, Ricardo Kirsan, is the seller of pulp.
Meanwhile, Blasius Adi Saputra, grade 2 high school students Pangudi Jakarta Luhur I also became victims of the recent violence popularly known as bullying. At school, he was beaten brothers class. Please understand due to his school, according to Adi Saputra, prevailing caste system. Class I animal caste, class II human caste, class III caste king, while the alumni is a god. "I was treated like animals," he said. Not stand to be treated like that. Adi Saputra in April 2007 and then reported the case at his school to the police.
In Semarang, a Police Academy cadet, had vanished ideals become cops because they do not stand being tortured by the seniors. For him better as a cadet in Akpol retreat rather than continue to suffer.
The violence is not only physically but also mentally. That's what happened Vivi Kusrini, so he decided to kill himself by tying his neck (hanging) with a length of cable television. Vivi tidaktahan after his friends mock Kirsan Joko, his father looking for a bite of rice to finance his family members by selling porridge. Vivi's Friends abusive father with the taunt "Vivi children jokbur" alias Joko handyman porridge.
Joko, when appearing on Kick Andy, explains Vivian at first indifferent to the harassment by his school friends. But, over time he can not stand too, because his friends at school kept making fun of, "Vivi jokbur child, Vivian jokbur child."
Six months before the end of his life, to Joko Vivi never vent and say can not stand to be treated like that, "Dad, Vivi want to move the school to the village alone," said Vivian, as spoken by his father's return.
"Why do you want to move?" Johnny asked. "I'm not strong at the school merely mocked," said Vivian.
A week before the exam, Vivi even asked her father for the school. The point for Joko admonish his friends who often taunting him. With a borrowed bicycle, then drove to school Joko Vivian. Arriving at school, Joko confused what to say to friends Vivi. "If I was emotion, even more troublesome. Finally I said to Vivian wait just because your father does in fact work selling porridge. I many times tried to convince Vivi that job was selling porridge lawful employment. I then said to Vivian," Already, you go Just test it, "said Joko. In my heart Joko was determined to move Vivi to school in their village, in Central Java, after the exam later. However, the fate of other wills. Before the intent was implemented, Vivian is taking shortcuts to end his suffering. SMP innocent child that chose to commit suicide.
All certainly hope this is not repeated in the family because there are younger Vivi Joko has also been revealed does not hold himself mocked by his friends continue work concerning the father. Especially if he's late payment of school fees. Johnny also said this time he did not want to missed. In the near future he will move the sister Vivi to school in his village.
The chance to appear on Kick Andy, Johnny told to young children not to harass other people. While the parents, Joko notice, "Teach your kids to do good, mutual respect, do not let the children to harass his companions."
What Vivi felt, actually felt Andy Noya, host of the Kick Andy. Andy's father was a typewriter repairman. With terbatabata voice, in this episode, Andy admitted that time he was not proud of having a father typewriter repairman. "For me it is a job that does not boast. I am often embarrassed when friends tell each other their father's work," he said. "But after I was grown up, after my father died, I realized life was a lot of value given to my father even though he only handyman betulin typewriter," Andy said with tears in his eyes.
(Kick Andy, Kumpulan Kisah Inspiratif, Bullying)
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